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“It’s scary because from the outside you can’t see it,” said Mallishan, who is also a coordinator for the SHOUT LGBTQ Film Festival. It doesn’t allow people with common interests of different races to hang with each other.”Īccording to Gina Mallisham, a coordinator at Birmingham AIDS Outreach, there is class, economic and gender segregation in the LGBT community in the South. “But they will only deal with me through work because if they take me around their other gay friends, they will feel some type of way around them. “I have a few white gay friends, and I know most of them from work,” she said. Patterson, who is from Montgomery, said the issue of discrimination in the LGBT community annoys her. “We can’t seem to understand, with there being so much discrimination against homosexuals in the South, why there is still a black and white discrimination in the gay community,” she said. Patterson said during Pride Week, her organization, Lesbians Living Life, was faced with having separate parties divided by race. Here in Birmingham the black gay community will go to Quest and Al’s, but they refuse to come to our clubs and our events,” she said. “In most large cities there is Gay Pride – which is majority white – and then they have Black Gay Pride. Stephanie Patterson, 29, said there is a lot of segregation in the Birmingham LGBT community where groups are often split between black and white, she said. “She really wanted me to do the ‘Yes ma’am,’ ‘honey child’ thing with her and that’s really not me, so it was really uncomfortable.”īell is not the only person who as a member of the black LGBT community has had to face challenges. “I was talking to this woman at work and she said, ‘I know you know about fashion,’” Bell recalled. “It’s like a punch in the throat.”īell, who is a store manager in the Galleria, said he has never been directly offended by people because of his homosexuality, but often experiences a lot of stereotypes and stares. “It’s the worst feeling in the world when someone moves their kid away from sitting by me,” he said. It is often hurtful the way he is treated, Bell added. (FRANK COUCH PHOTOS, THE BIRMINGHAM TIMES)īell, 26, said that being black and gay is especially difficult because of opposition from both the black and white communities. Carlton Bell, 26, or Alabaster, said that being black and gay is especially difficult necaise pf opposition from both the black and white communities.
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Supreme Court ruling that legalized same-sex marriage and many probate court judges in the state, with backing from Chief Justice Roy Moore, refused to issue marriage licenses to gay couples. The state was one of the few to challenge the U.S. How the Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender (LGBT) community is viewed has been widely discussed since the shootings that sent tremors throughout the country.īut some feel a deeper discussion isn’t being held: how minorities in the gay community are treated.Ĭhallenges for any member of the LGBT community in Alabama have been difficult enough. Imagine being both.”Ĭarlton Bell posted those words to his Facebook page a day after the mass shooting this month that resulted in the deaths of 49 people in a gay nightclub in Orlando.
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The names of the victims were read aloud on the steps of the Jefferson County Courthouse and a rainbow banner was draped over the Birmingham City Hall entrance. Central Alabama Pride held a remembrance and candle light vigil for those killed and injured in an Orlando, Florida nightclub. Gina Mallisham draped in a rainbow flag waves to a friend in the crowd.